My posts have become intermittent.
This is an update and provides an explanation for my intermittent posts, and gaps. In 2022 I became gravely ill. After diagnosis the doctors said that my illness was inoperable, and that I had at best a 15% chance of survival. In Spring 2023 it was suggested that I go into hospice, but I declined.
What followed was several years of radiation therapy, chemotherapy and immunotherapy. It was a very difficult two years. My life had been upended, and casual travel was completely suspended, with none in 2023. My 'medical leash' was very, very short. In that year the 4,000 miles of travel via automobile was for medical purposes. There were radiation treatments 5 days a week, frequent chemotherapy, then immunotherapy and many hospital stays and several trips to the emergency room.
More recently I was diagnosed as "stable" and I continue to challenge my condition and attempt to live as normal a life as possible. So, in 2024 we resumed some short-duration RV travel. In 2025 we took a much longer trek, both in time and duration. These trips were accomplished by scheduling certain medical procedures to provide windows of opportunity. My spouse now does about 20% of the driving, sometimes less.
The nephrostomy tubes are my primary physical limitation, although my stamina and strength also took a hit. At one point my body weight was 20% below my "thin" weight. Tube flush occur daily, and wound care is a regular routine, usually every other week. These can performed at home or on the road, unless there are issues such as infection. I carry a large plastic bin with the necessary medical supplies, some of which are not readily available at the pharmacy. Because of this, and to accommodate other procedures I do have a medical leash, and there is always the possibility of unforeseen problems including tube failure, kidney failure, infection etc. Discomfiture is a constant companion but is the least of my concerns. Plans for travel include an abort if there are medical issues. While air travel is a possibility, I have a compromised immune system and airplanes are a petri dish I prefer to avoid. That does restrict travel opportunities. I have a procedure coming up in a few weeks; this is a regular nephrostomy replacement, which occurs every few months. Then CT and MRI scans, blood work, etc. Medications can be filled while on the road, so that has never been an impediment. I am on minimal medications. An iron supplement, blood pressure medication to protect the kidneys and vitamins. That's it. I avoid paid meds. I prefer the awareness of what's going on with my body.
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Typical Nephrostomy Wound Care Bandage |